Life After Abortion
After an abortion, some people feel relief, shame, regret, denial, numbness, anger, anxiety, sadness, or depression. Some people feel one or two of these emotions, and some people feel many of these emotions. Your feelings are unique to you, and you are entitled to your emotions surrounding your abortion. You do not have to hide them or be afraid to share.
Whenever you need us, we can help. Contact us today if you need assistance processing these feelings about your abortion.
Family, Friends, and Others Affected by Abortion
Family members, boyfriends, spouses, and friends who have been affected by another person’s abortion choice may feel many of the emotions mentioned here. They may also feel helplessness, regret, and blame. Your feelings surrounding another person’s abortion are important and valid.
Anyone affected by abortion may find it helpful to talk about their experience and feelings in a safe, non-judgemental environment. It is never too late or too soon to discuss your emotions with someone who understands and is willing to listen. Healing and hope is available to anyone seeking guidance with their after-abortion journey. We are here to help.
Help, Healing, and Hope
We are here to provide support and care after your abortion experience. Everything is confidential, and no one will be notified that you have contacted us. We can even assist you in finding support outside of your local area if that is more comfortable for you. Your privacy is important to us. As always, all our services are free of charge.
References
Louise, K., Due, C., Oxlad, M., & Middleton, P. (2020). Men’s grief following pregnancy loss and neonatal loss: A systematic review and emerging theoretical model. BMC Pregnancy and Childbirth, 20(11). https://doi.org/10.1186/s12884-019-2677-9
Mayo Clinic. (2022, December 13). Complicated grief.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/complicated-grief/symptoms-causes/syc-20360374
Reardon, D. C. & Craver, C. (2021). Effects of pregnancy loss on subsequent postpartum mental health: A prospective longitudinal cohort study. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 18(4), 2179.
https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph18042179
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